tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595990248054544778.post4245413349077810421..comments2009-04-10T15:56:42.657-06:00Comments on Victoria's Insanity: Help!cutelilVictoriahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12081445626389491578noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595990248054544778.post-12292695546609005632008-12-09T16:34:00.000-07:002008-12-09T16:34:00.000-07:00When my father in law died, my mother in law came ...When my father in law died, my mother in law came to live with us. They would have been married 57yrs when he died. What we did was take her out for that day and took her to Fiddler On the Roof. It was a show that dad knew she loved. I was worried that it would upset her. But she was so thrilled and it meant so much to her. I think spending time with her would be great and if she is a distance from you, give her a call and tell her how much she means to her and that you love her. Everyone that I know that was married that long wants to remember and have the memories shared that others have. :) I think the picture is a great idea too. Im not much for flowers either. A memory is so much more important.Sandiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09603635620432267933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595990248054544778.post-12512494954672268962008-12-09T14:54:00.000-07:002008-12-09T14:54:00.000-07:00While flowers are nice, I've never been a huge fan...While flowers are nice, I've never been a huge fan of them since they die and you have to throw them away. I think something I might like would be a nice picture of you and Jess (and anyone else they helped raise if you can manage it) and the girls. On that photo, put a nice note saying how much you appreciate her and Grandpa and the love they/she always had/has. Like, have that note printed on the actual picture.Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06238655558353334691noreply@blogger.com